No, I did not go to a TV studio. This afternoon, two of my kids and I
traveled to "studio class" at the studio of their piano teacher. As a "working most of
the time" parent, I have generally counted on teachers to come to me (or at least pretty close). I
doubt that my children would have learned piano had they needed to travel each week for the lessons. But several times a year, our teacher hosts
groups of students at her home for an hour in which the kids play for each other and
discuss music and technique. For us, the event requires a long train
ride or a fairly substantial car trip, and generally some waiting
around, as the kids are in different age/skill groups. It can be a
challenging weekend commitment, to be sure. But today, with no other
major events on our calendar, we headed off to the studio.
In the end, the roads and traffic were kind, each kid had an "adventure with
mom" during the other's studio time, and both children had the
opportunity to play their current piano pieces in someplace other than
home. Yes, it took a chunk out of our day--travel and waiting do that.
However, after years of the convenience of lessons at home, was it
really so terrible a trade-off? I don't think so.
Sometimes it takes something that is a little difficult to remind you how easy
you have it. For a very long time, our piano teacher has been coming to
our home, adjusting to whatever schedule-altering activities we add on,
and teaching our kids piano (not to mention the discipline that comes
with it). Whether a sitter or I (when I was out of work) has opened the
door to her, she has arrived each week--for years--prepared to teach
sometimes eager, sometimes tired pupils, who, I remind myself, would
never have learned piano had the lessons required weekly travel. We just
couldn't have done it.
We won't always be available for studio class, and going to it might never
be easy, but like most things in life, it is a trade-off--an exchange
for something else that we might otherwise take for granted. Because of a
teacher willing to accommodate working parents and busy kids, I have
children who will have at least some piano ability for the rest of their lives.
As far as I'm concerned, a bit of a trip and an hour of waiting a few
times a year are well worth it.
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