In light of the New York City school bus strike, my scooter-obsessed son
has taken a break from the scooter. You see, now he has a student
MetroCard, given only to kids who don't ride the school bus. He had
been begging me for months to buy him his own MetroCard (to which I'd
replied, "Where are you planning to go by yourself?"), and now he has
one (even if I hold on to it for safekeeping between dropoff and pickup). So,
despite the fact that the bus strike forces him to get up and out
earlier, and to be part of picking up his sister, who doesn't have a bus
either, he is happy, because he has his very own MetroCard. Without
even trying, he has happily turned lemons into lemonade.
Would that it were so easy for us grownups to do the lemonade thing. I
consider myself a generally "glass half full" kind of person, but there
comes a time when putting a positive spin on things that aren't so
positive is just HARD. Not having enough work may mean more time with
my kids but also means less money to keep them "equipped" and less
feeling of self-worth to keep me sane. For better or for worse, I've
become too much of a grownup to see just the positive. So I settle for
finding little positives, like a laugh with a friend, or an excellent
hot shower, my cousin's blog "Virtual Jar," or a bag of cookie crumbs
falling right side up rather than all over the floor. And some days,
the little positives add up, and by day's end, the glass actually feels
half-full.
So, while the bus strike continues, we will likely take lots of buses
with my son's prized MetroCard. And courtesy of all of it, my
networking days will start later and end earlier (which I actually might
be able to spin as a positive, since I tend to accomplish more on
tighter deadlines). I guess maybe I am that "glass half full" person
after all.
Make my half-full glass lemonade.
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