Tonight, my daughter was a stage manager for her 6th grade class play.
Which meant that last night, she was scrambling to find or make the
props that had somehow fallen through the cracks during the weeks of
rehearsal. And that this morning, we were discussing how she could follow her
school uniform requirements and still wear the "show black" befitting
her stage manager position.
A few weeks ago, as I began to think about how I would get to the show,
which started earlier than many local working parents could make and
MUCH earlier than a working-in-a-different-state parent could ever HOPE
to make, I resigned myself to the fact that I could try to do it, but
that between work schedules and train schedules, I would likely arrive
huffing and puffing, and I would just as likely arrive late.
And then, everything changed. With the early taping hiatus in Stamford,
my days became shorter and my time more flexible. And I was able to be
back in the city with enough time to make my way to the far reaches to
get to the school. Basically on time. Which made me realize that the
current shifting of work is really just a temporary stage, one that, at
least today, turned out to be useful.
So, while my daughter was stage managing, I got to thinking about stage
management too--for me, the managing of the stages of my work and
family and career. Even when I was in the same workplace for years, there were
different positions, different producers, different dynamics, each of
which created a different stage that I needed to manage. Just like the
cues my daughter executed to enable tonight's play to succeed, I change
up the cues every day to match the situation. It's all about assessing
the needs and gathering the resources. And making the daily
"performance" a success. It's just a question of managing the stages. Stage
management, that is.
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