I stopped ever so briefly, to explore a store just after it opened. I
decided to take a particular train, and come out at a particular exit. I
chose to run a particular errand, for which I had to turn a particular
corner. And as I walked to my destination, before me appeared an old
friend with whom I spent the next ten minutes catching up.
It was wonderful to see my friend. After all, in the chaos of everyday
life, weeks and months go by without your being able to schedule lunches or
coffees or even phone calls. We get wrapped up in our own "craziness,"
and the last thing we're thinking about is checking in to find out about
someone else's "craziness."
I walked away from our conversation somewhat amazed by how many little
decisions on my part landed me on just the same block at just the same
time as she was there. Any one different choice on my part, or on hers,
for that matter, and we wouldn't have seen each other. Months
might have passed until we communicated at all.
Sometimes, in our lives, we are worried that we have made the wrong
turns--the big ones or the little ones. Today, I was reminded that even
the questionable turns can turn out well, whether they produce a task
completed or a friend seen or, well, nothing at all. You never quite
know until you make the turn, until you allow yourself to veer off an otherwise straight path,
and see what's around the corner. Sometimes, around that corner, you
realize you've made exactly the right turn.
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