A number of years ago, my then Executive Producer was interviewed about 
the directing team on One Life to Live.  I distinctly remember him 
talking about how, when you had a directing team that worked together 
regularly, there became a shorthand, so that the process could happen 
without saying all the words.  The Stage Managers and ADs could 
anticipate the Director's needs, and the ADs, PAs, and Stage Managers 
could work together so well, they could get the job done almost 
seamlessly.
Today, with my family, I've been reminded how empowering that can be. 
 It's been a day of not doing that much--just going through old clothes,
 books, and papers, sharing meals--but there has been that same feeling 
of finishing each other's thoughts, knowing which stories from our 
shared past will make us all laugh.  There really is nothing quite like a
 group knowing each other that way.  For me, it has actually allowed me 
to relax a little from my job search stress.  After all, while scouring 
the Internet and networking and writing multiple cover letters may be 
stressful, even wearying, it is the absence of that team, that shorthand
 among colleagues that is even more wearying.
When I was with my "team" in the midst of production, we knew we could 
get it done if we stuck together.  As a freelancer, I am on my own, so 
whatever "team" I assemble is defined not necessarily by job titles, but by my 
ability to reach out to like-minded people.  While someday this may 
change, for now, I'm just grateful for family filling the gap.  Because 
sometimes it's easy to say all the words.  And sometimes I hope some things 
can go without saying.
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