I have always been impressed by people who can clearly state that they
are good at something. Even years ago, when I interviewed middle school
girls for a career video I was making, one of the things that struck me
most was their ability to say "I'm good at." It didn't matter so much
what they were good at. What mattered was their ability to own their
proficiency. I hope that now that they are grownups (the video was
almost fifteen years ago), they are still that confident. Not cocky, but
confident.
I have always found it incredibly difficult to own my strengths in that
way. While I will happily work my hardest or do my best, talking about
it is not so easy. And I guess maybe that has been one of the good
things to come out of these last few years of job exploration. In order
to find work, I have to give a little more thought to what I'm good at.
And in order to get and keep work, I have to own the things I'm good at.
If I can't own my capabilities, how can I own the work? And if I can't
toot my own horn, just a little, how can I expect people even to know that I
am here to do the work? It's not about shameless self-promotion, or
about credit over substance. It's about self-awareness, and about career
survival. If you can't own your own value, why should anyone else even
see that value?
We've all heard the expression, "the work speaks for itself." Once in a
while, maybe it does. Once in a while, people will look beyond the work
to see the person who did it. The rest of the time, it can't hurt to
throw in a little voice of our own.
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