My son is starting Little League baseball, which means I am probably at
least 2-3 years behind the curve, since many of the parents have had
their kids on teams of one sort or another since kindergarten. But no
matter. He--and our whole family--will catch up, and if he likes it, I'm sure it will
soon be as if we've been doing this forever.
As I sit outside a school gym, waiting for him and about 150 other kids
his age to be evaluated and put on teams, I am struck by the amount of
perspective I am gaining on my own life by spending two hours with
several hundred eight year old boys. Today, I have learned:
1. The noise created by three siblings in a largely carpeted apartment
is nothing, absolutely nothing, compared to the sound created by 150
third grade boys, some with metal bats, standing in a decidedly
un-carpeted public school hallway.
2. Never put a metal bat in the hand of an 8 year old boy who is going
to have to wait on line for a half hour (I didn't, but a whole lot of people did). It's nearly impossible for them
to resist swinging (at a person or at the door that is locked), and you
definitely don't want to be responsible for that!
3. There's nothing like a big group to make you appreciate your own
child, who might not want to wait for anything at home, but waits
patiently in public while chaos is going on around him.
4. Like so many activities we get our kids into, baseball cuts across
huge ethnic, social, and economic boundaries that we might never cross
ourselves. The list of names called included just about every ethnicity I
could imagine. I hope that the whole experience will as well.
5. In life, as in baseball, it's important to develop a perfect pitch,
catch whatever balls are lobbed at you, and always come out swinging.
Like my daughters' play rehearsals, which run our family's organizational
life, my son's baseball is likely to become the centerpiece of many
weekends for the next few months. He's so used to being carted to
everyone else's events, this stands to be a big change for him, and, I
hope, one he will like. Because I have a feeling there's a lot more I
can learn about life--from baseball.
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